Survivor Support

Wendy Haggerty

My husband James Hughes, or "Bud" to friends, was an incredible person to know. He was so full of life, and always had a mischievous glint in his eye. He loved the outdoors; cycling and running were just a few of his favourite pastimes.

Unfortunately, tragedy struck one evening. Whilst he was returning from duty, James's car left the road and he was killed. During the events of the evening, I was numb. The days following the accident are very difficult to describe. My emotions varied from anger to disbelief to devastation.

Fortunately, with the support of my parents, brother and friends, I survived. I still do not know to this day, how I managed to get through it, but I did.
After a short time, I made a conscious decision that I had to take care of myself. I had to pull myself together, figure out who I was, and take each day at a time.

I made a few radical changes to my life. I moved house and changed job. Then, fate played its part and I met John, who supported me, understood me, loved me, and swept me off my feet. Which is something I did not look for, and never thought could happen again.

We got married and now have two beautiful children. As a family unit we are complete, and are very happy. I feel very blessed and thankful each day for the happiness that I have.

I feel enriched as a person because of the past, and I now look upon each day as a new beginning. I can honestly say, that I look forward to the future, whatever it may bring!

Wendy Haggerty